Specially for You~

If you wander off too far, my love will get you home.
If you follow the wrong star, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

If the bright lights blinds your eyes, my love will get you home.
If your troubles break your stride, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

If you ever feel ashamed, my love will get you home.
When there's only you to blame, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

男人大丈夫，要顶天立地~~~

刚才看了一篇文章，说岳母在女儿婚宴上向女婿交待好好照顾女儿的故事，
让我不联想起一些东西值得分享的~

从前到现在，为什么男孩子已经被认定是必须要扛起一切责任的动物？
做戏的小孩的出生是为了保住父母的地位，帮父母分家产等等。
即时是现实生活中，大家庭里的男孩子们都是父母摆出来炫和比较的工具，
因为这些男生都多了一样东西。
我家是个活生生的例子。
阿嬷曾经对我说，为什么他们会让她去读书而不是让他去读书？
家里都没有钱供了，如果是阿嬷，阿嬷早就先供儿子读书毕业了才来让她读~
。。。。。。。。

男婴儿一出世就背着这样的重担，爸爸会对他说，
宝宝，你要乖乖长大，然后替爸爸承担家业~！
妈妈说，宝宝你要快点长大，然后赚多多钱来养妈妈~~~
有些妈妈还对女儿说，可惜你们不是儿子，不然可以为爸爸出一口气~你看，他们都瞧不起我们~~~

男孩子长大了在学校跟同学闹输哭了，老师就会说，
不许哭，你是boy来的，哪里可以哭~~羞羞~
这也是一个责任。
他们都说，男人大丈夫流血不流泪，
所以很多男生至今都不敢在别人面前流泪，
只可以勉强的滴几颗泪珠，
然后又要逞强的爬起来~

男生长大读书了妈妈就说回同样的道理，
你是爸爸唯一的儿子，所以你一定要读好书来，
以后出人头地赚钱养回爸爸~
爸爸妈妈也是你的责任~

有些人择偶时也会问，
你是你家唯一的儿子吗？
是哦？？
啊~那做你家媳妇不是很大压力咯？~~~~~

儿子长大要结婚了，
岳母岳父甚至女方的祖先十八代统统跑出来千交待万交待说要好好照顾这个姑娘儿，
不许遭到丝毫的委屈，你要扛起这个责任，娶进门了就要好好服侍好好顺从，好好的疼好好的爱~
现在都好像比较少有岳父岳母对媳妇儿说要好好地疼儿子了吧~
所以这都是责任~

就连facebook都常常在post一些如何对待女朋友的论文，
全都是给男生看的，因为爱女朋友疼女朋友不让女朋友受到丝毫伤害都是他们的责任。
有时看了那些post心里会觉得很舒服很想share给身边的他，让他好好学习，
可是想了想还是有点可怜facebook里的男生，因为大多的post都是针对男生的，
鲜少是给女生的篇~
facebook's post 也是男生们的责任~
开了看了读了吸收了实行了都是他们的责任~

现实一点的例子吧，为什么男生就一定要gentleman?
我身边的男子都会有些绅士，（虽然都比不过我的他）,
不过我发现有些男生帮我提东西时那个表情就像,
: 我是男生，所以又责任帮你，虽然我不是很愿意~
wahahahha~!有点好笑~对不起。。。
是吗？会不会有些男生就是这么想？
当我和一个女生走在一起时我就有那个责任保护她，
不管她是不是我女朋友，
不管她愿不愿意，
不管她是谁，
不管她需不需要，
我都有着这样的责任，
被逼要保护她要帮她提东西~
有吗男生们？？
这是个藏在心里的责任,
不管他们愿不愿意~

我或许给的例子不够多，不能真正的表明出男人扛的责任，
可是我是有点不明白为什么他们注定要扛起责任，还要扛起那么多的责任，
才分享这篇部落格~

所以全世界都是男人的责任。
妈妈爸爸弟弟妹妹姐姐爷爷奶奶，那个家那块地，那个女人那些孩子，
那一堆金钱那颗钻石，她的一生他们的未来他们的下半辈子和他她它祂都是男人的责任。
男人一出生就背负着一个重大的责任，就是这些没完没了的责任。

每每我痛得想滚床滚到死时，羡慕他不需要承受这一些痛楚时，
亲爱的他都会告诉我说，我们不需要承受这些，可是我们要承担很多很大的责任叻~
对啊，有道理~
所以这世界表面来看是公平的。
我庆幸我不需要承担那么多的责任，至少我没有背着要帮郑家耀祖光宗的责任，
至少我不需要承担一个男人的一生，至少我不需要背着一定要出去赚钱养孩子的责任，
至少我不需要娶一个可以帮我生儿子的人，不需要传宗接代，至少至少~~~~

Good Night Cinderella

总在酱宁静的夜晚特别的想你~我想说，我想你~因为你睡了，我不忍心再吵醒，
又没有别的地方可以发泄，只有透过这里传达到你的梦里咯。
睡着了吗？有梦到我吗？听到我说我想你吗？
晚安宝贝，我爱你~




我知道你不喜欢，不过你不需要知道它的存在~

sick~

turn down the fan, put on my jacket,
one hand holding vicks another hand holding notes,
eyes staring at the screen, hoping somebody will appear to cure me,
my honey at the kitchen is nt affective to cure my throat,
i need something like honey now to cure me~
my puzzled heart as well~

I m not coming back~

just back from home sweet home~ i really dun feel like coming back...sobs... miss you miss you miss you....i wanna stay longer to go starbucks with mummy early in the morning, stay longer to eat mummy's dishes, stay longer to use up daddy's money to shopping, stay longer to play with daddy's moustache, stay longer to pinch my sis's fatty lipids, stay longer to play monopoly with them, stay longer to see you longer, stay longer to pull off your leg's hair and make you scream and ran off but yet still come back and let me pull off them, stay longer to tickle you, stay longer to bite you to play with my hair to kiss my cheek to stare at me to hug you tight to hold my hands to love love my head to tell me lame jokes to laugh together to this to that~ every moment is so precious when you are by my side, every second goes so slow when we are together, i captured the moments when i tickle you and you beg me nt to do, when i cry your forehead squeezed together you wipe off my tears and tell me that you are sad ask me not to cry, when you hold my hands to cross the road though not many cars bt you care, when you move away my head to my homework from tv and asked me to 做完了先啊~hee, i miss those actions~ when you talk to me so gently in the car before i reached home,asked me to take care in kl to study hard to be careful when going to sch and not to like other guys and then must miss you, lol, Da, I Love You. Don't worry. I miss you, i really do... Before i leave i always asked you to kidnap me, next time lock me in your bathroom and tell everyone i m lost.... I don't want to come back here~ December, pls come faster. Stpm, pls pass faster. Kl local u, pls accept him. I wait you here :D

why pretty girls forever so bad attitude? I'll never trust in a pretty girl anymore...they're way too over in showing off themselves and in their manner....some even act like a biadge tht they dun even know yet want to stab ppl's back behind and criticize ppl as bitch.... disappointed.....no more envy on pretty girls anymore....never.....pretty girls are always in bad manner bad attitude and bad hearted....luckily i m not:D

Borrowed text books from library and planned to do revision over the weekend bt im'ma lazy.....btw let me try on my blogspot:) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ yday went to one u shopping with friends...I bought ma dress in kitschen with discount of 30% ,friends' top with 20, sunglasses and also somebody's bag with 30% discount oh mian~~ happy happy~~~~~



the dress i mentioned and ma very cheap sunglass:D

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well, i gonna go on my diet plan to fit in this dress....sobs~~~~

Shifted my blog from space to here *wink*